Once your partner pops the question and you say "yes!" it's time to bring on the wedding planning. Sure, you've got cakes to taste, seating charts to figure out, and rings to buy, but there's one task that should be at the tippy-top of your to-do list: asking your best friend to stand beside you on your big day. Not only will you need her help and support during the upcoming months, there's also no one you'd rather get married next to—your special someone excluded, of course. How to ask though? She deserves a memorable maid of honor proposal. Once you've enlisted her help, she can help you with the other pressing matters of the day like sorting through country wedding ideas and concocting the perfect Instagram captions. (Come to think of it, you might want to have another gift at the ready for when all that work is complete!)
There's nothing better than a handwritten note. Invite your best pal to be your maid of honor with thoughtful musings about why you need her to be a part of your wedding day in this hand-painted watercolor card.
There's no better way to entice your BFF to take on maid of honor duties than with a portable spa in a box packed with a card, lavender-scented bath bomb, handcrafted soap, and a 2-inch succulent. The lavender scent will help keep her relaxed during all of the wedding planning.
This sweet floral card will keep her guessing about your intentions until she scratches off the gold heart. There's also plenty of room inside the card for a personalized plea. This is an ideal option for a long-distance BFF.
Set up a movie night with your best friend, pop up some popcorn, press play on your favorite wedding-themed film (this DVD set includes Made of Honor, Maid in Manhattan, My Best Friend's Wedding, and The Wedding Planner), and then pop the maid of honor question.
This sweet-scented candle will remind your maid of honor of the upcoming nuptials each time she burns it. The 8-inch soy candle comes in 12 different scent options, including Wedding Cake, Bridal Bouquet, and Champagne and Strawberry.
Ask her to be your maid (or matron!) of honor with this vintage-inspired hankie, and she can keep it handy as she walks down the aisle and wipe away all those (happy) tears.
Surprise your best friend with a maid of honor proposal in the form of a glittery Christmas ornament, and she'll remember the honor of being asked to stand beside you on your big day for years to come.
If your maid of honor is an organization queen, gift her with this planner to help her keep her life—and all of the wedding dates and details—on track. It includes a bridal shower planner, wedding toast tips, maid of honor duties checklist, and more.
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Maid of Honor Cookies
Charles Schiller
The way to a maid of honor's heart is through her stomach, so mix up a batch of her favorite cookies before you ask her to join you on your trip to the altar. There's no way she can say no to chocolate chip cookies.
If your maid of honor loves tea and/or delicate vintage items, she will appreciate this teacup and saucer. Pair it with a box of her favorite tea, and she's sure to say "yes," and she'll cherish the keepsake as she sips her tea long after the wedding day.
Let your BFF know she's the one you want standing in your corner by gifting her with an indulgent satin-and-lace robe. Bonus: It's affordable, so you can get them for every member of the bridal party, and the gang can wear them while getting hair and makeup done on the big day.
Everyone loves receiving flowers! Surprise your best bud with a bouquet of fresh blooms—like this Leo bouquet of pink and red peonies with eucalyptus—and a note asking her to be your maid of honor.
This affordable (and practical) option will make the maid of honor proposal easy, and your BFF can sport these fun hair ties during the bachelorette party and reception.
For an extra special maid of honor proposal, fill this bag with your best friend's favorite magazines, treats, and bottles of water. She can also use it on the wedding day to haul essentials.
Make your potential maid of honor dizzy with happiness via a bottle of her favorite rosé adorned with a personalized wine label. Pour a glass and toast the upcoming wedding!
Gift your best friend with this gold initial necklace (also available in silver and rose gold). She can wear it long after her wedding-day duties have been fulfilled.
Invite your best friend over for a little Chinese takeout, and then surprise her at the end of the meal with a fortune cookie with a "Will You Be My Bridesmaid?" message.
Got a best friend who loves puzzles? Send her this adorable specimen. Not only will she enjoy putting it together, she'll be delighted by the meaningful request.
Channel your Girl Scout days, and gift your potential maid of honor with a zip pouch packed with wedding day supplies: tissues, ibuprofen, lipstick, a mini sewing kit, travel-size toiletries, etc. Chances are, it'll come in handy on the bachelorette party, the wedding day, and beyond.